If one starts to draw comparisons between what is and what is not, it is the poorer qualities of the former that strike you, the impurities, the flaws; in short, you can only really feel safe with nothingness.

Italo Calvino
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When we compare and contrast something and something else, we usually just see the flaws. We don’t realize that it is the imperfections of what is that gives us comfort, not what is perfect.

Source: The Complete Cosmicomics

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